Sume org ade best friend kn? Ak pon ade! tp nk jdi best friend yg terbaek tu yg susah... Kdg2 org x senang ngn kite kn? so, Meh kite tgk cmne nk jd best friend yg terbaek------->
1. Be your own best friend first. Learn how to respect yourself. Decide what boundaries are important to you and respect them. Understand what values are important to you, stick by them and seek others who honor those values.
2.Be yourself. Being yourself around someone is part of what makes you guys best friends. You are who you are, and your best friend will accept that.
3.Trust each other. You may find it hard in life and think that it is impossible to keep your best friend happy. To be a good best friend really doesn't take much. All you have to do really is make sure you can both trust each other with everything and you don't keep secrets.
4.Be trustworthy. If they tell you a secret, make sure to keep it. Never ever, ever, tell someone a secret your friend wanted you to keep.
5.Be loyal. Stick up for your friend when they need it. Respect those times when they need to stick up for themselves. Trust your friend and allow yourself to be vulnerable with them.
6.Stick up for them. Sitting and watching your best friend get picked on or teased is definitely not going to earn you a brownie badge!! in best friends.
7.Never leave them. If you do, you'll regret it. Never say "Yeah, I'll walk home with you!" or "I'll meet up with you tomorrow" and then you don't do it. That makes your friend question your reliability. Always do what you say you'll do. trust.
8.Spend time together. Hang out on the weekends or plan activities together every now and then, do some homework together, and chat during break at school.
9.Share laughs. There is nothing like laughing and smiling to bring people together. Besides, when they're really friends, you guys can laugh at the dumbest and funniest stuff.
10.Take a moment to listen. Nobody likes a best friend who just talks and talks, but never listens. If you're a chatterbox, it's okay if you're also a good listener. Whenever your best friend says something, listen carefully and say something.
11.Care for your best friend. If your best friend is ever upset then ask them what's wrong. They might not tell you straight away but they will in the end, you just have to comfort them and let them know that you are there no matter what.
12.Avoid Expectations. If you assume what best friends' roles are, you will get disappointed and frustrated. Best friends are one of the most valuable friends you have, but they cannot help or support you in every aspect of your life. Do not expect them to always be there, or expect them to say the thing you want to hear.
13.Maybe you weren't meant to be best friends. If neither of you make an effort to get together, or if you get into fights with them for no reason, then maybe you weren't meant to be best friends.
14.If they pick another friend over you, just try to be friends with her friend too. Maybe you guys can be a group of friends! Everyone is always looking for new friends! But never ever leave the old one!
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